Also: Deviantart has this feature now where if someone mentions your name in a post you get a message. Someone posted an old CV fanart and mentioned me. Which is fine and good. But they called me by female pronouns. I’m not sure if I should ask them to not do that?
Deviantart is weird and any time I’ve had someone commit a transgression against me and I said something (e.g. hey it’s cool you like my art but please do not trace it, or hey it’s cool if you wanna translate Cuanta Vida into another language but please credit me) That kind of thing hasn’t happened for a long time but if I would say something, no matter how nicely, I’ve had people straight up delete their accounts right after.
I don’t want some kid to lose their shit over a pronoun flub.